Trolley Dash
Hebrews 12:1 ‘Therefore, since we
are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every
weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race
that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our
faith…’
For starters, I’m really not a
believer when it comes to lucky wins. Either I’m not so lucky or the system is
completely corrupted; all I know is I would never spend a single dime on a
lottery ticket or take the time to purposely take part in any sort of draw
unless I had no choice. However I must say that my faith in these systems has
been given a positive nudge this weekend (Thanks Colin).
A friend of mine won a shopping
voucher in a draw organised by one of the banks here in Uganda. Since he was
not going to be able to use it, it was passed down to me (Yey! Thanks again
Colin). It was a trolley dash, where you’re given a very VERY little amount of
time (think less than 2/3 of a minute) to dash through a supermarket and pick
anything of your choice without exceeding a given amount of money. I would post
a picture but I feel that might be free advertising for both the bank and the
supermarket.
On second thought, what the heck.
There you go. (Spot me if you can)
It was such an experience. The
adrenaline rush just before you start, the bundle of nerves that you become and
the speed at which it all goes by was memorable. I don’t know if it’s because
it was the first time I was doing something like this; mind you I had many
doubts, even contemplated just going back home at some point, but I do know I
learnt a few good life lessons from it.
1.
You
can’t plan everything.
Matthew
6:25-34 ‘Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will
eat, what you will eat or about your body, what you will put on. Is not life
more important than food and the body more than clothing? ...do not be anxious
about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.’
And don’t think it’s for lack of
trying. I’m a meticulous planner so I tried to plan for everything and I mean
EVERYTHING. From the route I would take with the trolley, to what items I would
put in and which ones I would leave out, to which aisles I would go through and
which ones I would not, to the last pit stop. I had sufficient time to go
through the store and look around beforehand. I did rehearsals with the timer
on my phone, I practiced moving around with the trolley, and I even got tips
from those that had been there for the event that had taken place the day
before…but nothing! It still didn’t go the same way when it came to the actual
thing. How many times do we plan out our lives, or the lives of our children,
or every single minute of a day only to have it go haywire when the time comes?
How do you react when things don’t go according to plan; do you spend the rest
of your life in regret mourning your losses? Do you dedicate your life to
making sure the world pays for your disappointments? Or do you dust yourself
off and try again?
2.
It’s
never as easy as it seems
It could be either easier or
harder… You know how when you watch Amazing Race, you’re always secretly
looking to see if you would be able to do the different tasks the competitors
are given? I usually see some of the pairs going about their duties and I’m
thinking ‘why didn’t they do it like this’ or ‘why did they go that direction’
or ‘if it were me, I would definitely have done it like this’ ? Let’s just say
I won’t be saying anything of that sort anytime soon, I have a new found
respect for those guys. I mean we were divided into five pairs and would go a
pair at a time but even after I had seen many pairs doing the trolley dash with
my very own eyes, or even after I had noted their mistakes and tried to see how
to avoid making the same ones, it still wasn’t as easy as I thought it would
be. I didn’t make all the same mistakes the pairs before me did, but I made
some new ones of my own. How easy it is to judge those that have gone before
us, to dismiss their work as poorly executed until we walk a quarter mile in
their shoes? Have you taken the time to try it out before you claim
superiority? And after the realization that it is indeed not as easy, have you
taken the initiative to apologize to those whose work you undermined?
3.
Prioritize
Right around the 20th
second, I realized I was actually not going to be able to get everything I
planned to get. I also did not really have time to contemplate which items on
my list were more ideal than the rest; I barely had time to breathe! It all
boiled down to either getting the items closest to you or getting the items
most important to you, and even then, there still wasn’t much time to decide
that either. I later settled for a bit of both ( and by one later, I literally
mean one second later) but it got me thinking how it’s just the same with life.
Sometimes you have to sit carefully and make hard choices/decisions. Other
times, you don’t have the luxury of time so you just wing it…but don’t be
deceived. Even as you ‘wing it’, you are subconsciously making a choice; you
have prioritized, whether you realize or not. Are your priorities right? If you
ever had to wing it, are you confident that you wouldn’t regret that decision
later on?
4.
Life
goes on
I couldn’t possibly emphasize
this enough. After we got home with our spoils, it was not even an hour later before
we had moved on to a whole other issue. All the excitement, the non-stop talk
immediately after, the jokes about blunders made and the recall of the whole
thing just stopped. You do not even realize it until it pops up in your mind at
a later time that it is already in your past. While there are those things that
stay with you forever (usually as a choice of your own), life does go on, from
both the good and bad. So what is it that you are holding onto that should
actually be in your past? What is that thing you’re so afraid of losing, and
why? Have you thought about how your life going to go on after it?
5.
Enjoy
the ride!
I can honestly say that by the
time it was my turn to do the trolley dash, all my anxiety had evaporated and I
was having a good time. Don’t get me wrong, I gave it my best, as should you,
but at the end of the day, it was more of a fun time than anything else. We
were laughing, and panting, and sweating and shouting over each other, each
person trying to narrate their ordeal… and we were winners! Isn’t that what
it’s all about? I’m sure we have all heard paraphrased versions of how life
isn’t about arriving at a destination, but the journey there, I couldn’t agree
more! Are you enjoying this ride they call life? What are your excuses for not?
And what are you going to do about them?
Ps: Enjoy responsibly…
Trolley dash- I can totally imagine the adrenaline rush!!! So, what did you get???? :-D
ReplyDeleteHahaha I wish you knew! The only thing that I got that I can actually talk about in public without any shame is a set of Table mats :-)
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ReplyDeleteHaha. But Kullein, so many life lessons from a trolley dash! You're truly thinking different.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha I know... It's like a ceiling full of bulbs that go on and off sporadically in my head.
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